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In our 40s, we finally have the perspective to stop doing things because we have to, and start doing things because we love to. We are the Amateur 40-Somethings. We might be slow, we might be messy, and we definitely need to stretch before we start, but we’re having more fun than the experts.

For the first three decades of our lives, we’re under immense pressure to be "experts." We need to be experts in our careers, experts at parenting, experts at "having it all." But somewhere between the first gray hair and the first time we threw out our back reaching for a remote, the jig was up. We aren't experts. We’re . Why Being an Amateur is a Superpower amature 40 somethings

There’s nothing that builds a bond faster than a group of 40-somethings collectively failing to understand how to use a Discord server or a new piece of gym equipment. Reclaiming the Word In our 40s, we finally have the perspective

The word "amateur" comes from the French word amour —to do something for the love of it. For the first three decades of our lives,

Being an amateur in your 40s is a choice. It’s the decision to try something new—pickleball, sourdough starters, oil painting, or learning a language—knowing full well you might be terrible at it. Here is why "Amateur Hour" is actually the best hour: