Understanding that attraction is involuntary can be a liberating shift in perspective for both dating and self-development. How It Works
Intense infatuation can be driven by a chemical cocktail of dopamine, norepinephrine (arousal/alertness), and a drop in serotonin (which leads to obsessive thoughts ). Attraction Isn't A Choice
At its heart, this idea argues that you cannot "logically convince" someone to feel attraction for you through debate, lists of your good qualities, or sheer persistence. Understanding that attraction is involuntary can be a
Stops the cycle of trying to "convince" someone who isn't interested, which often creates neediness or desperation . lists of your good qualities