: You might not be falling for them , but for the version of them you've created in your head. This leads to treating a first date like a 50th anniversary.
: Match their energy. If they send a three-word text, don't reply with a novella. If they take four hours to reply, try not to reply in four seconds every single time. cumming on a little strong
Getting the balance right when meeting someone new is tricky—show too much interest and you're "coming on strong," but show too little and they think you're uninterested. : You might not be falling for them
