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: If a guest won't leave, be firm but kind. Use phrases like, "I appreciate you visiting, but I need to get back to my routine and have the house to myself now" .

: Discuss "house rules" early, such as typical wake-up and bedtimes, or whether you need certain "quiet hours" for work or routine.

: Always arrive with or provide a small token of appreciation.

: Be mindful of utilities. Avoid taking excessively long showers that use all the hot water.

Five tips for being a gracious house guest - Clise Etiquette

: If your host is saving you hotel costs, it is a kind gesture to take them out for a meal or order in dinner at least once.

Being a great houseguest—or a gracious host—is about balancing hospitality with boundaries. While there are no universal "hard-and-fast" laws, following general etiquette guidelines helps ensure everyone remains on good terms. The Golden Rules for Guests

: For long-term unwanted guests, you may eventually need to set a specific move-out date or, in extreme cases, provide formal notice of eviction if they have no other place to go.