You can't change your DNA or your childhood, but you can give your personality a "workout." If you’ve been told you’re "cold" or "unfriendly," you can practice the specific social skills required to appear more approachable. By identifying your "outlier traits"—those areas where you're off the charts—you can learn to manage them as superpowers rather than let them become your Achilles' heel. The Takeaway
You’re organized and dependable, but you might struggle with spontaneity or drive your family crazy with your rigid schedules. personality
Think of personality as your "typical day" reaction. It’s the habitual pattern of how you think, feel, and behave. However, research suggests that we aren't just what happened to us—we are what we choose to become. The Trade-Off of Traits You can't change your DNA or your childhood,
